{"id":146,"date":"2016-05-09T07:27:11","date_gmt":"2016-05-09T07:27:11","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/dulajana.eu\/?page_id=146"},"modified":"2022-11-06T13:01:50","modified_gmt":"2022-11-06T13:01:50","slug":"reference-2","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/dulajana.eu\/blog\/?page_id=146","title":{"rendered":"Reference"},"content":{"rendered":"<h4>Doprovod Jany k porodu je pro \u017eenu po\u017eehn\u00e1n\u00ed. V jej\u00ed laskavosti v doteku i ve slov\u011b. V soucitu a pochopen\u00ed, kter\u00e9 m\u016f\u017ee d\u00e1t pouze \u017eena \u017een\u011b. Ve v\u00ed\u0159e v \u017eenu a jej\u00ed p\u0159irozenou schopnost p\u0159iv\u00e9st sv\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b na sv\u011bt. V \u00fact\u011b k p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhu ka\u017ed\u00e9 \u017eeny.<\/h4>\n<h4>Pro partnera je Jana velkou podporou n\u00e9st t\u00edhu, kdy u\u017e je toho prost\u011b moc. V Jan\u011b m\u00e1 mu\u017e skv\u011bl\u00e9ho par\u0165\u00e1ka v um\u011bn\u00ed se rychle rozhodovat, t\u0159\u00eddit rychle d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 informace v situac\u00edch, kter\u00e9 nebyly v pl\u00e1nu.<\/h4>\n<h4>A porod prost\u011b do detailu napl\u00e1novat nelze.<\/h4>\n<h4>Pro oba, mu\u017ee i \u017eenu, je Jana nositelkou lehkosti a sm\u00edchu i tam, kde si \u010dlov\u011bk mysl\u00ed, \u017ee to nejde. Z\u00e1rove\u0148 v\u0161ak s velkou d\u00e1vkou empatie.<br \/>\nDostalo se mi toho po\u017eehn\u00e1n\u00ed pro\u017e\u00edt p\u0159edporodn\u00ed, porodn\u00ed i poporodn\u00ed obdob\u00ed s Janou v l\u00e9t\u011b roku 2008.<\/h4>\n<h4 style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>J. D. po porodu\u00a0druh\u00e9ho d\u00edt\u011bte<br \/>\nCAP Kada\u0148, 2008<\/em><\/h4>\n<h4>\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/dulajana.eu\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/05\/ella_medium1.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-563 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/dulajana.eu\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/05\/ella_medium1-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"ella_medium\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/dulajana.eu\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/05\/ella_medium1-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/dulajana.eu\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/05\/ella_medium1.jpg 400w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/h4>\n<h4><\/h4>\n<p><!--more--><!--more--><!--more--><!--more--><\/p>\n<h6><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\">.<\/span><\/h6>\n<h6><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\">.<\/span><\/h6>\n<h4><\/h4>\n<h4>V \u010dem mi pomohla dula? Co v\u0161echno jsi mi dala, Jani?<br \/>\nTak u\u017e p\u0159i prvn\u00edm setk\u00e1n\u00ed s tebou jsem si p\u0159ipadala, jako bych t\u011b znala dlouho a v\u011bdom\u00ed, \u017ee ti m\u016f\u017eu v\u011b\u0159it a sv\u011b\u0159it se s \u010d\u00edmkoli, mi nasko\u010dilo hned (a j\u00e1 se jen tak n\u011bkomu neotev\u00edr\u00e1m, jsem ned\u016fv\u011b\u0159iv\u00e1 k lidem).<br \/>\nPro m\u011b je a byla moc d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e1 ta emocion\u00e1ln\u00ed podpora a pozitivita, kterou mi p\u0159ed\u00e1v\u00e1\u0161, kdy\u017e ti p\u00ed\u0161u nebo \u0159\u00edk\u00e1m, \u010deho se boj\u00edm a jak se c\u00edt\u00edm mizern\u011b, a to mi dod\u00e1v\u00e1 i sebejistotu \u017ee v\u0161e zvl\u00e1dnu. Po dvou pro\u017eit\u00fdch potratech jsem byla se sebev\u011bdom\u00edm a sebejistotou \u00fapln\u011b na nule a vy\u010d\u00edtala si, \u017ee nejsem ani \u017eena, kdy\u017e nedok\u00e1\u017eu donosit miminko. A tv\u00e9 hlubok\u00e9 pochopen\u00ed a nac\u00edt\u011bn\u00ed se na to, co pro\u017e\u00edv\u00e1m, je u\u017e od na\u0161eho prvn\u00edho setk\u00e1n\u00ed tak uklid\u0148uj\u00edc\u00ed a z\u00e1rove\u0148 mi pom\u00e1haj\u00ed zase sebejistotu i sebev\u011bdom\u00ed nal\u00e9zt. D\u00e1v\u00e1\u0161 mi prostor, abych si v sob\u011b v\u0161e ut\u0159\u00eddila, uklidnila se a ud\u011blala si v my\u0161lenk\u00e1ch jasno. Doporu\u010dila jsi mi, \u010demu se vyh\u00fdbat, abych byla klidn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed a co tomu naopak pom\u016f\u017ee.<\/h4>\n<h4>Pom\u00e1haly mi na\u0161e konzultace p\u0159ed m\u00fdmi n\u00e1v\u0161t\u011bvami poraden, kdy\u017e jsem hledala argumenty pro sv\u00e1 p\u0159\u00e1n\u00ed, odm\u00edt\u00e1n\u00ed a reverzy na v\u011bci, kter\u00e9 jsem necht\u011bla podstupovat. Bylo pro m\u011b zpo\u010d\u00e1tku tak t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9 \u0159\u00edct, co nechci, br\u00e1nit se, st\u00e1t za sv\u00fdm, byli jsme tak vychovan\u00ed, nestav\u011bt se autorit\u00e1m, i kdy\u017e se n\u00e1m n\u011bco nel\u00edb\u00ed. Ale jako rodi\u010d p\u0159ece nem\u016f\u017eu b\u00fdt jen takov\u00e1 hloup\u011b poslu\u0161n\u00e1 hol\u010di\u010dka. A vlastn\u011b mi to pomohlo se hodn\u011b propojit s mali\u010dkou, vn\u00edmat, co je pro ni dobr\u00e9 a d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 a co ne. V\u011bd\u011bla jsem, \u017ee j\u00ed bylo tak nep\u0159\u00edjemn\u00e9 to m\u011b\u0159en\u00ed ozev, \u017ee u\u017e jsem na dal\u0161\u00ed ne\u0161la.<\/h4>\n<h4>Pomohlo mi, \u017ee jsi m\u011b nasm\u011brovala na gravidj\u00f3gu, meditace a nau\u010dila n\u00e1s s man\u017eelem uvolnit bolav\u00e1 z\u00e1da rebozem. Za\u010dala jsem d\u00edky tob\u011b vyu\u017e\u00edvat p\u0159\u00edrodn\u00ed prost\u0159edky pro l\u00e9\u010dbu sv\u00fdch pot\u00ed\u017e\u00ed, to se mi bude hodit i a\u017e bude mali\u010dka n\u00e1 sv\u011bt\u011b. Pomohla mi kniha hypnoporodu, cvi\u010den\u00ed s aniballem&#8230;<\/h4>\n<h4><\/h4>\n<h4>Jak se bl\u00ed\u017e\u00ed term\u00edn, d\u00edky na\u0161im setk\u00e1n\u00edm u\u017e nem\u00e1m ten obrovsk\u00fd strach z porodu a bolesti p\u0159i n\u011bm. D\u011bkuju, \u017ee jsi a bude\u0161 s n\u00e1ma v tom nejd\u016fle\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00edm okam\u017eiku v na\u0161em \u017eivot\u011b. Je pro n\u00e1s skv\u011bl\u00e9, \u017ee s man\u017eelem zn\u00e1me \u00falevov\u00e9 polohy p\u0159i bolesti, \u017ee jsme tolikr\u00e1t prob\u00edrali jednotliv\u00e9 body porodn\u00edho p\u0159\u00e1n\u00ed. Vybrali jsme pe\u010dliv\u011b porodnici, zajeli se tam pod\u00edvat, to v\u0161echno je moc d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9.<\/h4>\n<h4><\/h4>\n<h4>A jestli bych si troufla rodit sama, jako \u00fapln\u011b sama? No, jako prvorodicka bych sice necht\u011bla, ale z\u0159ejm\u011b ano, zvl\u00e1dla bych to. A m\u016fj &#8222;alternativn\u00ed&#8220; man\u017eel si je jist\u00fd, \u017ee bychom to spolu zvl\u00e1dli i sami. Nejsem schopn\u00e1 \u0159\u00edct, jak budu um\u011bt argumentovat u porodu, proto\u017ee je\u0161t\u011b nev\u00edm, jak to cel\u00e9 budu pro\u017e\u00edvat, jestli m\u011b to moc nevy\u010derp\u00e1. M\u00e1m p\u0159ipraven\u00e1 homeopatika, v\u00edm, jak\u00e9 pou\u017e\u00edt bylinky a v\u00edm, jak\u00e1 hudba mi d\u011bl\u00e1 dob\u0159e. Ka\u017edop\u00e1dn\u011b si mysl\u00edm, \u017ee v\u0161e u porodu se z\u00edsk\u00e1v\u00e1 hlavn\u011b zku\u0161enost\u00ed a ta m\u011b teprve \u010dek\u00e1. Ale kdy\u017e budu vyklidn\u011bn\u00e1 a v pohod\u011b, tak ur\u010dit\u011b v\u00edm, co chci a co ne. A tak\u00e9 tam bude man\u017eel a ten m\u016fj postoj taky zn\u00e1. N\u00e1s dva takhle pro\u017e\u00edvan\u00e9 t\u011bhotenstv\u00ed hodn\u011b propojilo, on je schopn\u00fd,\u00a0 a\u010d je chlap, se do m\u011b vc\u00edtit sv\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem a hodn\u011b mi pom\u00e1h\u00e1. Hodn\u011b se do toho polo\u017eil, od t\u00e9 doby co jsi s n\u00e1mi, a\u017e mi p\u0159ijde, \u017ee je v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed alternativec ne\u017e j\u00e1, co\u017e jsem fakt ne\u010dekala \ud83d\ude42<\/h4>\n<h4><\/h4>\n<h4>V\u017edycky jsem c\u00edtila, \u017ee bych cht\u011bla ke sv\u00fdm d\u011btem p\u0159istupovat jinak, ne\u017e se v na\u0161\u00ed spole\u010dnosti p\u0159istupuje a kdy\u017e jsme si pov\u00eddaly o kontaktn\u00edm rodi\u010dovstv\u00ed, no\u0161en\u00ed a takov\u00fdch v\u011bcech, kone\u010dn\u011b jsem si to mohla pojmenovat, co c\u00edt\u00edm. Tak to chci d\u011blat. Tak uvid\u00edme&#8230; u\u017e to bude za chvilku \ud83d\ude42<\/h4>\n<h4 style=\"text-align: right;\">\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 <em><em>\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0G. N.<br \/>\np\u0159ed prvn\u00edm porodem v zim\u011b 2020<\/em><\/em><\/h4>\n<h4><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\">.<\/span><\/h4>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<h4><\/h4>\n<h4>To, \u017ee budu rodit s dulou, mi bylo jasn\u00e9 u\u017e dlouho p\u0159ed porodem&#8230; Po n\u011bkolika letech str\u00e1ven\u00fdch v Praze jsem se vr\u00e1tila do Chebu a m\u011bla jsem radost, kdy\u017e jsem objevila inzer\u00e1t na &#8222;dulu z Chebu&#8220;. Po setk\u00e1n\u00ed s n\u00ed mi zaplesalo i srdce, nebo\u0165 jsme si padly do noty i jako lid\u00e9, l\u00e9pe \u0159e\u010deno jako dv\u011b du\u0161e. Od t\u00e9 chv\u00edle jsem nem\u011bla z porodu (z lid\u00ed v nemocnici) strach. V\u011bd\u011bla jsem, \u017ee to &#8222;d\u00e1m&#8220;. D\u00edky Janin\u011b p\u0159\u00edprav\u011b na porod v Kadani jsem byla klidn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed&#8230;. Jana pom\u00e1hala i cestou do Kadan\u011b. Mas\u00edrovala mi v aut\u011b z\u00e1da, proto\u017ee jsem m\u011bla hned od za\u010d\u00e1tku k\u0159\u00ed\u017eov\u00e9 bolesti.Celou dobu porodu byla Jana u m\u011b, nemysl\u00edm jen t\u011blem, ale i du\u0161\u00ed a i kdy\u017e jsem si myslela, \u017ee u\u017e &#8222;to&#8220; nezvl\u00e1dnu a nen\u00e1vid\u011bla jsem cel\u00fd sv\u011bt kolem, byla p\u0159i m\u011b a podporovala m\u011b. Kdy\u017e mi neslou\u017eily no\u017ei\u010dky, krmila m\u011b hroznov\u00fdm cukrem. Nedovedu si bez n\u00ed porod p\u0159edstavit. &#8230;Ba ne, dovedu, musela bych to stejn\u011b zvl\u00e1dnout, ale jsem \u0161\u0165astn\u00e1, \u017ee jsem nemusela. Porodem ale Janina podpora nekon\u010d\u00ed. Z porodnice jsem j\u00ed volala, jednou dokonce n\u011bkdy ve 3 r\u00e1no, zatvrdla mi prsa&#8230; Po n\u00e1vratu dom\u016f jsem Jan\u011b volala t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 denn\u011b. Nem\u00e1m, koho jin\u00e9ho bych se zeptala na tolik nov\u00fdch v\u011bc\u00ed, kter\u00e9 mne \u010dekaly. Jeden p\u0159\u00edklad za v\u0161echny. Dva dny po n\u00e1vratu z porodnice dom\u016f jsme byly s malou u jedn\u00e9 d\u011btsk\u00e9 l\u00e9ka\u0159ky na kontrole, kter\u00e1 mi okam\u017eit\u011b doporu\u010dila um\u011blou stravu, proto\u017ee mal\u00e1 nep\u0159ibrala na v\u00e1ze. Nav\u00edc pr\u00fd je \u017elut\u00e1 proto, \u017ee je unaven\u00e1, proto\u017ee j\u00e1 nem\u00e1m ml\u00e9ko a ona se dost unav\u00ed s\u00e1n\u00edm. Odch\u00e1zela jsem od t\u00e9to l\u00e9ka\u0159ky nebo sp\u00ed\u0161 leka\u0159ky a m\u011bla na kraj\u00ed\u010dku. Na\u0161t\u011bst\u00ed Jana m\u011b podporovala v p\u0159edsevzet\u00ed kojit kojit a kojit. Um\u011blou v\u00fd\u017eivu nikoliv! A povedlo se. Mal\u00e1 za\u010dala hned p\u0159ib\u00edrat a st\u00e1le pap\u00e1me a nev\u00edme, kdy m\u00e1me dost&#8230;. Jani, d\u011bkujeme za v\u0161e a kdyby n\u00e1hodou podruh\u00e9, chci zase V\u00e1s!<\/h4>\n<h4 class=\"styl10\" align=\"right\"><em>I. K. po porodu prvn\u00edho d\u00edt\u011bte<br \/>\nCAP Kada\u0148, 2010<\/em><\/h4>\n<h4 class=\"styl10\" align=\"right\"><a href=\"http:\/\/dulajana.eu\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/05\/P1020045.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" size-medium wp-image-405 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/dulajana.eu\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/05\/P1020045-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"P1020045\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/dulajana.eu\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/05\/P1020045-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/dulajana.eu\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/05\/P1020045-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/dulajana.eu\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/05\/P1020045-960x720.jpg 960w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/h4>\n<h4 class=\"styl10\" align=\"justify\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\">.<\/span><\/h4>\n<h4 class=\"styl10\" align=\"justify\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\">.<\/span><\/h4>\n<h4 class=\"styl10\" align=\"justify\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\">.<\/span><\/h4>\n<h4 class=\"styl10\" align=\"justify\">A\u010dkoliv okolnosti nakonec nedovolily, aby byla Jana s n\u00e1mi u porodu na\u0161\u00ed druh\u00e9 dcery fyzicky p\u0159\u00edtomna, mus\u00edm j\u00ed i tak velice pod\u011bkovat za podporu, kterou n\u00e1m \u2013 mn\u011b a m\u00e9mu mu\u017ei \u2013 byla. Jedna p\u0159edporodn\u00ed konzultace s n\u00ed mi dala v\u00edc ne\u017e deset hodin p\u0159edporodn\u00edho kurzu, kter\u00fd jsem absolvovala p\u0159ed prvn\u00edm porodem a m\u016fj mu\u017e d\u00edky tomu byl u porodu naprosto \u00fa\u017easn\u00fd:o) Je to ur\u010dit\u011b i hodn\u011b o \u010dlov\u011bku, ale dulu jako je Jana bych p\u0159\u00e1la ka\u017ed\u00e9 \u017een\u011b.<\/h4>\n<h4 class=\"styl10\" align=\"right\"><em>D.V. po porodu druh\u00e9ho d\u00edt\u011bte<br \/>\nCAP Kada\u0148, 2009<\/em><\/h4>\n<h4 class=\"styl10\" align=\"justify\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\">.<\/span><\/h4>\n<h4 class=\"styl10\" align=\"justify\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\">.<\/span><\/h4>\n<h4 class=\"styl10\" align=\"justify\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\">.<\/span><\/h4>\n<h4 class=\"styl10\" align=\"justify\">Od duly jsem o\u010dek\u00e1vala p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm &#8222;porozum\u011bn\u00ed \u017eeny \u017een\u011b&#8220; a psychickou podporu. P\u0159i porodu mi Jana pomohla klidn\u00fdm p\u0159\u00edstupem p\u0159i prvn\u00ed dob\u011b porodn\u00ed, uji\u0161\u0165ov\u00e1n\u00edm, \u017ee pracuji spr\u00e1vn\u011b, a radou p\u0159i d\u00fdch\u00e1n\u00ed &#8222;pro miminko&#8220;. Zdravotn\u00edci se chovali po celou dobu chladn\u011b a nerespektn\u011b. Bohu\u017eel dne\u0161n\u00ed porodnictv\u00ed nech\u00e1pe porod jako vysoce intimn\u00ed a intuitivn\u00ed z\u00e1le\u017eitost. Duly jsou v porodnici ch\u00e1p\u00e1ny jako vet\u0159elci, ne jako n\u00e1pomocn\u00e1 osoba. V\u00fdhrou je, \u017ee ji tam v\u016fbec pustili, kdy\u017e tam byl i man\u017eel.<\/h4>\n<h4 class=\"styl10\" style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>E.P. po porodu p\u00e1t\u00e9ho d\u00edt\u011bte<br \/>\nnemocnice Karlovy Vary, 2009<\/em><\/h4>\n<h4 class=\"styl10\" align=\"justify\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\">.<\/span><\/h4>\n<h4 class=\"styl10\" align=\"justify\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\">.<\/span><\/h4>\n<h4 class=\"styl10\" align=\"justify\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\">.<\/span><\/h4>\n<h4 class=\"styl10\" align=\"justify\">Hledala jsem v pr\u016fb\u011bhu t\u011bhotenstv\u00ed n\u011bkoho, komu m\u016f\u017eu d\u016fv\u011b\u0159ovat, kdo m\u011b psychicky podpo\u0159\u00ed. To mi poskytla Jana. Pomohlo mi, jak m\u011b p\u0159ipravovala na porod u\u017e b\u011bhem t\u011bhotenstv\u00ed. Dal\u0161\u00ed porody si ji\u017e bez p\u0159\u00edtomnosti duly ani neum\u00edm p\u0159edstavit. Bylo skv\u011bl\u00e9, \u017ee zdravotnick\u00fd person\u00e1l v Kadani reagoval na p\u0159\u00edtomnost duly vst\u0159\u00edcn\u011b a sna\u017eil se n\u00e1m ve v\u0161em vyhov\u011bt.<\/h4>\n<h4 class=\"styl10\" style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>\u0160.S. po porodu prvn\u00edho d\u00edt\u011bte<br \/>\nCAP Kada\u0148, 2010<\/em><\/h4>\n<h4 class=\"styl10\"><a href=\"http:\/\/dulajana.eu\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/05\/PORODNICE-ADRIANKA-045.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" size-medium wp-image-406 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/dulajana.eu\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/05\/PORODNICE-ADRIANKA-045-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"PORODNICE ADRIANKA 045\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/dulajana.eu\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/05\/PORODNICE-ADRIANKA-045-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/dulajana.eu\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/05\/PORODNICE-ADRIANKA-045.jpg 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 225px) 100vw, 225px\" \/><\/a><\/h4>\n<h4><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\">.<\/span><\/h4>\n<h4><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\">.<\/span><\/h4>\n<h4><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\">.<\/span><\/h4>\n<h4>D\u011bkuju dule Jan\u011b za doprovod u porodu, hrozn\u011b moc mi pomohla, tak\u017ee Vanesska byla za chvilku na sv\u011bt\u011b. Opravdu mi pomohla se uvolnit a zm\u00edrnit bolesti, tak\u017ee pokud n\u011bkdo v\u00e1h\u00e1te, zda si vz\u00edt dulu k porodu, tak j\u00e1 \u0159\u00edk\u00e1m ur\u010dit\u011b ANO! V Kadani jsem si p\u0159ipadala sp\u00ed\u0161e jako na n\u00e1v\u0161t\u011bv\u011b ne\u017e v nemocnici. Bylo to velmi p\u0159irozen\u00e9 a intimn\u00ed.<\/h4>\n<h4 align=\"right\"><span class=\"styl10\">V.R. po porodu prvn\u00edho d\u00edt\u011bte<br \/>\n<em>CAP Kada\u0148, 2009<\/em><\/span><\/h4>\n<h4 align=\"right\"><a href=\"http:\/\/dulajana.eu\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/05\/Sn\u00edmek-501.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" size-medium wp-image-407 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/dulajana.eu\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/05\/Sn\u00edmek-501-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"Sn\u00edmek 501\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/dulajana.eu\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/05\/Sn\u00edmek-501-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/dulajana.eu\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/05\/Sn\u00edmek-501-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/dulajana.eu\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/05\/Sn\u00edmek-501-960x720.jpg 960w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/h4>\n<h4><span style=\"font-size: xx-small;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/h4>\n<div>\n<h4><span class=\"styl5\" style=\"color: #ffffff;\">.<\/span><\/h4>\n<h4><span class=\"styl5\" style=\"color: #ffffff;\">.<\/span><\/h4>\n<h4><span class=\"styl5\" style=\"color: #ffffff;\">.<\/span><\/h4>\n<h4><span class=\"styl5\">Porod s dulou, ps\u00e1no dulou.<\/span>Tak, v\u0161echny p\u0159ij\u00edmac\u00ed procedury jsou za n\u00e1mi. Jsme tu u\u017e samy. Zhasly jsme si, jen trocha sv\u011btla dopad\u00e1 z koupelny. Vn\u00edm\u00e1m dech \u017eeny vedle m\u011b, vn\u00edm\u00e1m, jak se m\u011bn\u00ed, d\u00fdch\u00e1m v duchu s n\u00ed. Kdy\u017e m\u00e1m pocit, \u017ee se dech n\u011bkde zadr\u017eel, stoj\u00ed, vzp\u00edr\u00e1 se vyj\u00edt do bolesti, nadechnu se nahlas, vydechnu jak to jen jde. Chyt\u00e1 se m\u011b vlastn\u011b mimod\u011bk. Napou\u0161t\u00edme vanu, le\u017e\u00ed v n\u00ed, odpo\u010d\u00edv\u00e1, stahy se trochu uklid\u0148uj\u00ed, srovn\u00e1vaj\u00ed. N\u011bco j\u00ed vypr\u00e1v\u00edm, rozpr\u00e1v\u00ed o miminku, jak\u00e9 asi bude, jak mu je te\u010f. To kdy\u017e pr\u00e1v\u011b neprod\u00fdch\u00e1v\u00e1 bolest. B\u011bhem stahu m\u011b nesly\u0161\u00ed, nevn\u00edm\u00e1. To je dobr\u00e9 znamen\u00ed, \u017ee se pono\u0159uje do sebe. Ob\u010das j\u00ed p\u0159ipou\u0161t\u00edm teplou vodu, podkl\u00e1d\u00e1m hlavu, pod\u00e1m vodu. Vyb\u00edr\u00e1 si olej do koupele a cel\u00e1 m\u00edstnost se pln\u00ed jemnou\u00a0 v\u016fn\u00ed. C\u00edt\u00edm \u017eivot, olej a vodu. Nemocnici ne. Uv\u011bdomuji si, \u017ee nev\u00edm, jestli tu te\u010f byla asistentka, nebo ne. Jej\u00ed n\u00e1v\u0161t\u011bvy jsou tak klidn\u00e9 a rychl\u00e9..\u00a0 Jsme\u00a0 s maminkou \u00fapln\u011b napojen\u00e9, p\u0159esn\u011b v\u00edm, kdy u\u017e se nec\u00edt\u00ed dob\u0159e. Po\u00a0 hodin\u011b vyl\u00e9z\u00e1me z vany. Pohybujeme se po m\u00edstnosti, stahy se zesiluj\u00ed. Hled\u00e1m vhodn\u00e9 polohy, v\u017edy, kdy\u017e m\u00e1 pot\u0159ebu zm\u011bny, navrhnu n\u011bco nov\u00e9ho a cel\u00fd porod se jako kouzlem pohne n\u011bkam d\u00e1l, sm\u011brem k z\u00e1v\u011bru. N\u011bco se uvoln\u00ed, n\u011bco praskne a zase se uvoln\u00ed. Je \u00fa\u017easn\u011b state\u010dn\u00e1, obdivuji j\u00ed. Za\u010d\u00ednaj\u00ed p\u0159ich\u00e1zet bolestiv\u00e9 stahy. U\u017e se t\u011b\u017eko rozd\u00fdch\u00e1vaj\u00ed, obli\u010dej se k\u0159iv\u00ed, je v n\u011bm strach. Nab\u00edz\u00edm j\u00ed coca-colu, co jsem objevila v ta\u0161ce. Vychutn\u00e1v\u00e1me si j\u00ed spolu, sm\u011bjeme se tomu, jako v baru, je to legra\u010dn\u00ed. Ale jen ty chvili\u010dky mezi stahy. Ty jsou u\u017e po\u0159\u00e1dn\u00e9, p\u0159ich\u00e1zej\u00ed t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 bez p\u0159est\u00e1vky. Ob\u010das j\u00ed pohlad\u00edm po noh\u00e1ch, kdy\u017e vid\u00edm, \u017ee zat\u00edn\u00e1 svaly. U\u017e se op\u00edr\u00e1. Mas\u00edruji j\u00ed z\u00e1da a tisknu boky. Pt\u00e1m se, zda je\u0161t\u011b nec\u00edt\u00ed tlak. U\u017e nemluv\u00ed, trochu se o n\u00ed za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1m b\u00e1t, jako v\u017edycky o ka\u017edou, kdy\u017e u\u017e to hodn\u011b bol\u00ed. Ale v\u011b\u0159\u00edm j\u00ed, tahle je siln\u00e1, velmi siln\u00e1. Bere si hroznov\u00fd bonbon. U\u017e to tla\u010d\u00ed, pov\u00edd\u00e1. Op\u00edr\u00e1 se o m\u011b, v\u011b\u0161\u00ed se na m\u011b, tak je to dobr\u00e9, skv\u011bl\u00e9. V\u0161e se velmi zrychluje, vn\u00edm\u00e1m jej\u00ed obavy, sah\u00e1 si ke ko\u0159en\u016fm. Bol\u00ed to, bol\u00ed to moc, ale u\u017e bude konec. Jste \u0161ikovn\u00e1, moc \u0161ikovn\u00e1, \u0161ikulko. Miminko tu bude brzy s n\u00e1mi.U\u017e vid\u00edme hlavi\u010dku, sah\u00e1 si na n\u00ed, vid\u00edm tak\u00e9 jej\u00ed roz\u0161\u00ed\u0159en\u00e9 zorni\u010dky, vid\u00edm jej\u00ed bolest a soust\u0159ed\u011bn\u00ed. Dr\u017e\u00edm j\u00ed za ruku. Je\u0161t\u011b dvakr\u00e1t zatla\u010d\u00ed a je tu kluk. Je n\u00e1dhern\u00fd, n\u00e1dhern\u00fd. Chce se mi plakat, jak je kr\u00e1sn\u00fd a klidn\u00fd. Bylo to rychl\u00e9, nen\u00ed tu ani doktor, ani d\u011btsk\u00e1 sestra. Je tu ticho a \u00fa\u017easn\u00fd klid, chlape\u010dek nepl\u00e1\u010de, jen trochu kuck\u00e1 a ona si ho bere na b\u0159icho, on hled\u00e1 bradavku.. Jsme tu t\u0159i. Zase sami, nen\u00ed tu o moc v\u00edc sv\u011btla ne\u017e p\u0159ed porodem. Nov\u00fd \u010dlov\u011bk je tu s n\u00e1mi, zdrav\u00fd a kr\u00e1sn\u00fd. Tak v\u0161echno nejlep\u0161\u00ed\u2026<\/h4>\n<h4>CAP, Kada\u0148 podzim 2008<\/h4>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<h4>Doprovod Jany k porodu je pro \u017eenu po\u017eehn\u00e1n\u00ed. V jej\u00ed laskavosti v doteku i ve slov\u011b. V soucitu a pochopen\u00ed, kter\u00e9 m\u016f\u017ee d\u00e1t pouze \u017eena \u017een\u011b. Ve v\u00ed\u0159e v \u017eenu a jej\u00ed p\u0159irozenou schopnost p\u0159iv\u00e9st sv\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b na sv\u011bt.<\/h4>\n<p><a class=\"ka-read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/dulajana.eu\/blog\/?page_id=146\"><span class=\"read-more-button\">Read More<i class=\"fa fa-long-arrow-right\"><\/i><\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"parent":39,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","template":"","meta":{"footnotes":""},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/dulajana.eu\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/146"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/dulajana.eu\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/dulajana.eu\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dulajana.eu\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dulajana.eu\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=146"}],"version-history":[{"count":31,"href":"https:\/\/dulajana.eu\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/146\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":860,"href":"https:\/\/dulajana.eu\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/146\/revisions\/860"}],"up":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dulajana.eu\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/39"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/dulajana.eu\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=146"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}